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He Got Her Pregnant, Later Accepted It But Won't Marry Her Because He Is Not In Love

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Cyberhope

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Please My Friend Needs Advice Urgently
A friend of mine got herself pregnant by a male friend of hers. Initially the guy wanted her to get rid of it and she has been warned about abortion. The guy later accepted the pregnancy and promised to take care of her and the baby.
He said it should better be a female child. The guy said he will collect the child but he won't marry her claiming he does not love her. My friend is now in love with this guy and she wants them to bring up the baby together cos she does not want the child to pass through what she passed through (she was brought up by a single parent).
This guy claims he does not love her and he doesn't want to see her with any other guy, he asks questions whenever any guy calls, he cares about her welfare and a times complains about her dressing or even dictate for her on the clothes to wear.
Pls it there any way she can make the guy love her?

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She can continue to show some care and love to the guy. If they are living together she can do some household chores that can show the guy that she cares for him like preparing and cooking meals for him, washing and ironing his clothes. If it doesn't work, she must start to live without the guy. She must composed herself again and look for a stable job to help herself in raising the child.
 

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She should accept the fact that the guys is not meant for her. She already lost the guy when he said he doesn't love her. Try to inaist that the relationship will still work would just end in a more chaotic situation. Raising a child alone is scary but it is better to be a single parent that to have a derabged married life.
 

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The story sounds contradicting. You said, the guy said she doesn't love her but so strict to her and jealous about her being with other guy.